martedì 9 settembre 2008

Kitchen corner!


I'll have to move from my home...that's very sad because I spent all my energies, passion, love, time and money to decor it! May be I made a wrong investment, but I don't think so...I have enjoied both my home and terrace for three years and I haven't regrets...nothing is for ever and when a door closes...may be a gate will open! I'm going to move to my mother's home...it's a wonderful and big house but it isn't mine and the cohabitation with her scares me! What I really want is a my own home for me and my children, my freedom and my independence...nothing in my life has been more disappointing than living with a man! So now I've found an aim in my life...having a house and making it my home!!! I don't know if or when I'll be able to do it, but... dreaming is free! So I show some corners of my home before I dismantle it! This is a corner of my kitchen...I bought the garde-manger in Antibes with my friend Paola and I repainted it...the white and green tea-cups are ancient and from England, while the bowls are from a flea market in Stockholm. The cream cups are from Norway and the cake stand comes from Antibes too. They are lovely souvenirs because they remind me happy moments of my life!
Tanti baci!!!

29 commenti:

MiaMaria ha detto...

Hello...

I can understand that you are sad to leave the place you love..
I´ts a lovely corner from your kitchen....

I wish you a lovely day!
MiaMaria

belle-blanc ha detto...

So many things changing this year... I don´t know what´s going on and what to think about.... I wish you all the best, be strong and patient... living with your mom want be easy, living with parents is never easy to handle... the corner of your kitchen is really pretty and I love the dishes... greetings Mira!

Tone ha detto...

Hi Vale!
I think I can read some new energy in your writing? :-)
I feel for you living with mum for some time, but it`s not for ever!
We went living with my parents for six weeks before buying this house. Holy... - so I feel for you.
They are SO kind and nice, maybee too much!!
Love your teacups! - have similar ones at the cottage!!

I am sure your dreams will come true Vale, but before you reach them - take time to breath and relax - in the end- everything turns out ok for nice girls! Maybee before you know it!!

Hugs from Tone

vosgesparis ha detto...

awww Vale grazie per le tue parole ;) hai raggione che faro tutto quello che mi fa felice di nuovo ;) il tempo passera ! grazie
baci, desiree

casa nostra ha detto...

i hope your dream will come true as soon as possible. good luck!

Ele ha detto...

Dear Vale,
I do not know what I should say,so many changes on the blogs everywhere... also on yours. I send you all my best thoughts and wish you good luck and that it is the right decision, to leave your house and live with your mother.

hearty greetings, hugs and kisses

Gabriele

Bertina ha detto...

Vale, I wish you all the best. So sad that you have to leave your home were you have put so much love. I hope things will turn out better for you and someday you will create a new home for you and your children. Hold on to your dreams. I wish you all the best!
Nice greetings.

nel ha detto...

Vale, I understand... dismantling your home under those circumstances is such an awful thing to have to do. You have a beautiful home and should be so proud of what you have achieved. But it's beautiful because it's you... something that you take with you wherever you go.

I know I have had to really, honestly learn to live one day at a time. The good thing is, that's all you have to do.

Take care of yourself and your children, Nel x

Galleri Hönshuset ha detto...

Hi Vale. It´s sad, but our lives doesn´t always turn out the way we want, but I´m sure that it will turn out just fine for you and your kids. You have your kids and that´s the most important thing. And kids gives us adults a lot of energi and hope, it doesn´t always feel like that, but when you are "back in business" again, you will andurstand what I mean =)Take care. Hugs to you from Sweden/ Pirre

Lynn@ The Vintage Nest ha detto...

Hi Vale, I was happy to have you visit. I love your wire covered door in your kitchen corner. I am so sorry you have to dismantle and move. Things will get better I promise you. :)

Min verden ha detto...

I am so sorry Vale. It is difficult to start again - and it is a shame that you have to leave the house. I can't do anything else than send you a good hug.Hanne

anita schoot ha detto...

Hai Vale,

Iam sorry to hear about your difficulties, i know from experience that there are good things coming, sometimes change can be good.(i changed homes and countries 4 times). Don't look back but look forward. And remember "Home is where the heart is".Hugs Anita

Marja Kristiina ha detto...

Oh Vale... I'm so sorry to hear all this :-( That isn't a nice door that is closing but I still firmly believe that it will all work out for the best in the end. You are right, a new gate will open eventually and it WILL be a fabulous one.

You've worked so hard and now to put it all behind you.. Must be incredibly rough. Please remember that you have every right to be sad and disappointed, even angry. Let it all out and after that a new, wonderful Vale will emerge, stronger than ever.

Take care! Thinking of you!

Janneke ha detto...

Dear Vale,
A lot must be going through your head rightnow....you just need time to get everything back in a positiv direction. Finally all will get well. I wish i could do something but you must feel good when you know that so many bloggerfriends wish you all the best.
My best wishes for you and the children !
Janneke.

Sandra... ha detto...

Hi Vale!!
This corner in your kitchen is beautiful my friend♥
I wish you a nice weekend!! Hugs!

E. ha detto...

Ciao vale, ti auguro di trovare tutta la forza che ti serve per ricominciare. Vedo che comunque nonostante la sofferenza riesci a partire con lo spirito giusto, il che non è poco.
Bellissimo il tuo angoletto, sono sicura che nella tua casa dei sogni che verrà troverà il suo posto!
ciao, baci
E.

Rebecca ha detto...

Hai Vale,
I´m so sorry but you are right, when a door closes, a new gate will open!!

I wish you and your children a good hug and the best wishes!!

Take Care,
Rebecca

jeanette ha detto...

dear vale, it`s so sad that you must leave your home where your heart is, i wish you all the best for you and your children...enjoy your stay at your parents, i send you a lot of positive energy and soon your dream will become true..
lots of love, jeanette

Vita Lenta nel Bel Paese ha detto...

Cara Vale,

Try to think ahead. Easier said than done. But still. Take the opportunity to think closely about what YOU want from life. Let your mother spoil you in the meantime. True friends are also invaluable. You´ll see.... one day you will discover the horizon! Penso a te! Bacione,Ingrid

Amber ha detto...

That wall color is just luscious! I love it paired with the soft green of the cabinet.

I can imagine it will be challenging to live with your mother as an adult...but perhaps a time will come in the future when you will realize it was a gift! None of our parents last forever.

Here is wishing you splendid house-filled dreams that come happily true...soon!

Tone ha detto...

Hi Vale, how are you?
Imagine you have a lot to do moving from the appartment - hopefully things get easier soon.
I have had an energic weekend, blogmeeting (fantastic!) - and a lot of other things to do.
Have a nice day!
Love from Tone

Sandra... ha detto...

Hi Vale, I wish you a good week!
Hugs♥

Marie-Nostalgi och Romantik ha detto...

I hope you will find a new home, that you will enjoy as much as you did with this one. And I´m sure you will...
Love from
Marie

Marianne ha detto...

I think you show the right spirit, a gate will soon open! I wish you all the best, life can be hard but I'm sure you'll cope : )
Take care!

Kari ha detto...

I wish you well..and I understand the disappointing.Man comes from mars women from Venus.It,s difficulty sometimes.
But lives go,s on,and you will make it.
Loves ans hugs

Something White ha detto...

Dear Vale, I discover here your sad story and I just want to tell you that I feel sorry for you. But in the same time I know that women are warriers who can handle EVERYTHING! My dear sister-in-law was left by her husband (my brother) some time ago. He found another woman, the foolish guy. The strength my sister-in-law got from that time, it´s unbelievable! I´m sure you will find your way in this life and even the home you desire so much. Take care; love, Marjolijn

Ps. I like that little cupboard on the kitchen-picture below.

Magny ha detto...

lovely picture again...
Have a good day,- see you...

hugs, your friend, Magny

Magny ha detto...

I hope your time in Your mothers home will be a good time for you and your children. If you are not happy with your man, you need to start on your own... start with dreaming...
Wish you all luck from my heart...


(and I love Antibes)

Carol ha detto...

Aww dear Vale I'm so sad to read that you have to leave your gorgeous home with the fantastic view on Lucca :( You know I was in the same situation some years ago (no luck with a man either - never had) and I now have my own home again, so just never give up hope and if you really wish for it I'm sure you'll get a new beautiful home again soon! Fingers crossed!
Best wishes sends you
Carola xox